surf more

love ya bitch

Tuesday, June 16, 2020

my first psychotic break

yesterday i had my first psychotic break and boy was that fun!

well, it may have been just my first panic attack but it was eventful to say the least

my heart goes out to folks who go through more serious things than i went through!

Wednesday, May 13, 2020

Today is a blog kind of day

hello hello is this thing on!?

ahem, yes, my name is Thomas and I am here to say, hello.


Hope you are having a nice day!

Did you learn anything new today?

I task myself with 30 minutes each day to learn something new.

Have a good one!

Tuesday, November 5, 2019

tuesday in October

the late 30s crisis continues 

the push and pull of comfort and money vs ?

I feel that

the thing is, it works, I know how to, and can provide 

"One last question, are you happy?" - no

but what would ?

Anyways, smell ya later and keep your head up!

Tuesday, July 23, 2019

Tuesday in July

Finally got some rain to break the heat wave.

Not that I cared, but boy it was hot ~100°

Hope everyone's having a good Tuesday :)

Monday, April 1, 2019

Oh...... it's not jay hento

What are you really slingin?

"Have you ever danced with the devil in the pale moonlight?"

"I played this stinkin city like a harp from hell."

Another day we wake up and sleep


Wednesday, January 16, 2019

Wednesday, December 19, 2018

Losing a friend

I lost a friend yesterday.  He did not wake up.

Life is just memories and we should try to create as many as we can with our friends and loved ones.

RIP MK, I have a guy on the inside now.

Be honest and a good person to one another.

If you know someone struggling shoot them a text or call, could make a difference.


Thursday, November 29, 2018

Monday, May 21, 2018


Monday gets a bad rap

I mean work yes we get it but it's still a great day!

It's a great day to be alive

Happy Monday

Thursday, April 26, 2018

Is Mikhail avail?

Goes beyond this.

Is Mikhail there?

"He expired, passed away couple weeks ago. We are just clearing his stuff"

Wednesday, April 18, 2018


Do you know the way to San Jose?

Location.  Location.  Location.



Friday, March 23, 2018


Well another work week wrapping up.

All is good now. Everyone is healthy.

That is all I want in this world (and beyond)

Spring is here and it just snowed.

Do something you enjoy today.

Wednesday, January 24, 2018

i always thought i would land on my feet

i am thankful for the life i have

when i was younger i just always thought i would land on my feet and life would not be hard - ignorance can be bliss

i can tell you that i found my way after my schooling in my mid twenties - i am thankful it did not take longer than that as that can be a struggle for many

i always thought i would make money i was never worried because i knew that i would not let myself down - i remember thinking six figure salaries were impressive

the major component i can attest to my success is diligent, honest, work - obviously one would need to find a stream of income to capitalize on this but that is another story

money aside i am thankful for friends and family

money is a man made thing that governs us all somehow

i work hard to have money to do things with my loved ones

that is all i care about and i think that is what drives my success

to anyone reading this, find something you are good at and work hard, stay true, and honest to your colleagues, friends, and family

everything else is secondary

Thursday, January 4, 2018


Oh and I forgot to tell you.

We got a new dog, Skip!

Pic below - such a good boy

Thursday January 4th 9:30 AM

I am working from home currently because there is a state of emergency for Monmouth / Ocean County.  We are expecting 10+ inches of snow with gail force winds.

I had a good 2017.  I am thankful for everything that took place.

I am looking forward to 2018 with my wife and dog by my side.  I have some goals that I would really like to hit but I know that some may be unattainable and I am ok with that.  I find myself goal setting to stream line my focus. Some I hit. Some I dont.

Anyways.  I have been offline and neglectful to this page. I will make an effort to update more regularly.

Happy New Year - peace love happiness! #jhento

Friday, March 10, 2017


hi sheila!

congratulations you have made it to the end of the scavenger hunt - ALMOST :)

go to the bathroom cupboard and look around for your final suprise!!!!

i love you so much!!!!

Friday, December 23, 2016

as luck may have it

it is the end of 2016 and i am very thankful for everything i have

my friends and family

it wouldn't be a good year without some bad news. through the fire comes the rebuild

i wish a road to recovery to someone i love very much

love is life -


a memorex with his name and number on it, two tracks and its free - does anyone want it!

Friday, September 23, 2016


you know how sometimes the day progresses and you have to ask yourself what kind of day am i having

i feel good

im not hungry

so and so is doing well

yea yea i will do that thing later i have been putting off

then youre emotion swing and you ask your self again what kind of day am i having


Tuesday, August 23, 2016


I hope you are well.

I have had a good summer so far.

Works great, Sheila is doing well, family is healthy and happy,  what else can I ask for!?!

I have been thinking about how I can be a better person, simple stuff.

Blanche is great too!

Lucky passed :( love her still

Hope everyone is doing great!


Friday, June 24, 2016

I remember my first #Starbucks

I remember my first #starbucks.

I had completed Grad school and was actively interviewing in NYC and NJ.

I was early for an on-site interview with an IT staffing firm based out of NYC and I found solace in a Starbucks.  I made fun of those people then, and still do, although I now am among the populous.

I was impressed with the young dynamic in NYC, the headphones, the MACs, the hipster/corporate look, and the fact that this generation X was "getting it".

Since that first time, I find myself going back to different locations getting the same drink (venti black w a scoop of ice).

Although I am not as impressed with the populous, I still go back.

Maybe its the cawwfee, maybe its a throwback, but i think that it is a commonality from who i was eight years ago to present.

Whats your story?